A Congregation Beyond Politics

In two congregational events this past week politics came up-in one case it sounded like a political rally. I have a challenge with this not because I don’t have my own opinions but because assumptions came up that I don’t think one should make. I’ll speak for myself-I don’t fit in a box. Conservative Judaism is the best fit for me but it’s not perfect; similarly, political parties not a perfect fit. I think there’s a lesson we need to have as we head towards November and beyond.

 In Judaism we are loyal to one thing and one thing only-God. Not a particular political party, not a particular ideology, but God. In the blessing after the Haftarah which Rabbi Leider beautifully chanted, she readונאמנים דבריך נאמן אתה הוא ה אלקינו  “You, Adonai our G-d, are loyal, and your words are loyal.” In Parshat Eikev, G-d commands us to observe all of the commandments. Throughout Eikev G-d commands us to remember and take heed of what we are being told. The word זכור, remember, appears 200 times in the Torah. The word שמע, to take heed, not just to listen but to harken-to really take something in-appears 92 times in the book of Deuteronomy alone! Incidents which occurred long ago, such as provoking G-d with the golden calf or testing G-d when there was no water in the desert, are repeated at length here. These are drummed into this new generation, about to enter the Land of Israel so that none of them can say they were not informed of the importance of observing G-d’s commandments as they embark on this new adventure.

In Judaism, we are required to have loyalty to G-d and to be informed of what G-d wants us to do in the Torah; in return G-d will be loyal to us. Whether we like it or not, it is a quid pro quo relationship. We are not commanded to be loyal to anything else, whether a person, institution or political party. When we wanted a human king, the prophet Samuel almost went into mourning and opposed this because he feared that allegiance to a human king would take the peoples attention away from the King of Kings, G-d.[1] We see the foibles and the weaknesses of the kings as you look in the Books of Samuel and Kings.

When the ark was opened before the Torah was taken out, I shared the following words: “I do not put my trust in any mortal, nor upon any angelic being do I rely, but rather on the G-d of Israel who is the G-d of Truth, whose Torah is Truth, whose prophets are prophets of truth and who abounds in deeds of goodness and truth. In   G-d alone do I put my trust and to G-d I utter praises.”[2] The motto on US currency-in God we trust. Of course, it’s easy to forget this-it’s easy to go astray-and of course it’s human nature to feel joy or fear based on what’s going on in the world. What I am saying is we often have short memories and pledge or fealty and loyalty to a certain cause and we don’t often think about what is at stake here.

Two months into my rabbinate here I spoke at a United Farm Workers rally, looking at is as an opportunity to show what Judaism says about how we treat workers. What I was unaware of was that the rally was based off a particular piece of legislation that one of the organizers told me was bad legislation in its current form.[3] What looks like something that everyone would stand behind-treating workers fairly-does not necessarily take into account that there’s more than meets the eye. We have to be aware of that. Not that it should make us paralyzed and afraid to take a stand on anything-that is certainly not the goal! We need to be aware of what it is that we’re standing for and that our ultimate loyalty is to G-d; not to any cause, not to another person, but to G-d alone.

We’re required to read these words over and over again, year after year. Humans by nature have short memories. We need to read and repeat in Mishneh Torah,[4] the repetition of the Torah, until things become second nature, and we develop positive habits. We have in Parshat Eikev words that demonstrate this. In the second paragraph of the Shema, the one which many are afraid to talk about and which some denominations have excised from their liturgy, G-d says to us “impress My words upon your very heart; bind them as a sign on your hand and let them serve as a symbol on your forehead, and teach them to your children-reciting them when you stay at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you get up; and inscribe them on the doorpost of your house and on your gates.”[5]

One of the things I love about Judaism is that there’s no dogma or one belief/opinion that one must follow. Sure, there are declarations of faith-Maimonides wrote one of the most famous. But we are encouraged in Judaism to be independent thinkers, to question things, to take what we have and arrive at our own conclusions. We’re given a roadmap for life in the Torah, but we have free will to do with it as we choose. We’re a people where belief is secondary to action, where doing the right thing, Tzedek,[6] that comes first before anything that we may believe. Remember the section of the Talmud “study is important when it leads to action”[7]-thoughtful, informed action.

What makes our community at Mosaic Law Congregation so wonderful is to have multiple opinions and at times vehemently disagree but to come together as a unified community. We’re here for a greater purpose than the latest story on the news, the latest rally. We’re here to come together and be unified as a community-not shying away from what we believe but being thoughtful and careful when we express it, not making assumptions that others think like us.

Everyone here is welcome at Mosaic Law Congregation regardless of what you believe provided that it will not lead to physically or emotionally harming another. If it’s destructive, then we have to have a conversation. We come together as a congregation for the greater good. We’re commanded to remember the shared narrative of our past, and to hearken to what we hear, keeping it near and dear to our hearts. We’re commanded above all else not to be loyal to a cause at the expense of everything else, only to be loyal to the One Above. That’s what we need to hold onto. The danger comes when we think “how could someone else think this way?” True it is fostered in the political environment, when someone says, “How can Jews think _________?” NO, NO. Jews like anyone else and anyone at Mosaic Law Congregation are entitled to their opinion. It doesn’t mean you’ll necessarily be given a platform to espouse it, but you need to be treated with kindness and respect. I’m not naïve that stakes are high, but what’s most important to me, the highest value is for everyone to feel comfortable, safe and welcome at our congregation.

That is what we are being reminded in Ekev. Remember the past, remember that our ancestors often disagreed, even on occasion reached the brink of civil war but they ultimately stayed together as a community. They were not always loyal to G-d, but it got drummed into their head that they could not sever from one another, that our core principle of faith in a better future and belief in G-d, the blueprint that is the Torah, which is what stood firm. Before responding at Kiddush, I want each of us to think-not to jump into the fray but to recognize that we are all images of G-d and that here we come together for a higher purpose, connection to G-d and to our community.


[1] 1 Samuel 8

[2] Breich Shmeh D’marei Alma in Torah Service

[3] I am grateful the legislation got amended and adopted a few short months later.

[4] A rabbinic name for Deuteronomy

[5] Deuteronomy 11:13-21

[6] Thanks to Rabbi Mark Margolius for this framing in Institute for Jewish Spirituality Awareness in Action

[7] Talmud Kiddushin 40b

Juneteenth

          Parshat Behaalotecha teaches us that “when you kindle the lamps, towards the face of the Menorah shall the seven lamps cast light.”[1] Each of these lights, whether on the right or the left, faces towards the center. It demonstrates that each light joins together to form a greater light than each can do separately. That is the case with us as well-we need to join together to support one another and demonstrate that what unites us is greater than what divides us.

This week we observe Juneteenth, the commemoration of slaves in Galveston, Texas finding out that they were freed in 1865. We also have a holiday celebrating freedom from slavery-Passover.  In college at UW-Madison, I took a course on Black-Jewish Relations that centered on the community of Brownsville, Brooklyn. It was fascinating to learn about how Black-Jewish relations have changed over time. I also learned firsthand from Jews of Color, being mentored by Rabbi Capers Funnye of the Israelite congregation in Chicago (first time I ever gave a D’var Torah and people shouted “Amen Brother!”), in working with Jews for Racial and Economic Justice and in being part of the Rabbinical Assembly’s Racial Justice Committee.

          As we celebrate the abolition of slavery, we need to remember that there remain those adversely affected by slavery even as we approach 160 years since the anniversary of Juneteenth. We must keep this in mind as our state senate passed three reparations bills a number of weeks ago. The senate has agreed to “issue an apology to Black Californians for the state’s role in instituting slave laws and discriminatory practices since its founding.”[2] As we move forward as a society, let us recognize the mistakes made in the past and as such may we work together towards a brighter future.


[1] Numbers 8:1

[2] https://www.foxnews.com/media/california-state-senate-passes-three-reparations-bills-apologizing-slavery-debt-owed

Operation Arnon: A Resounding Success for Israel

I learned with great excitement about the rescue of 4 hostages at the Neseirat camp in Gaza. I learned in the podcast Call Me Back that while the rescue of Noam Argamani went off without a hitch, the rescues of Shlomi Ziv Almog Meir Jan and Andrey Kozlov were met with great challenge and needed extra Israeli forces to come in to ensure its success. Thanks to Israeli soldiers who came in when the truck carrying Israeli special units and 3 of the hostages got stuck in order to make the rescue.

I feel for Meir Jan’s father who died of a heart attack just hours before the army arrived to deliver the news of his son’s rescue. At the same time, we saw the pure joy in the embrace of Noa Argamani and her father. Life is bittersweet, and we saw examples of both the bitter and the sweet with last week’s rescue operation.

We also saw secular Israelis enter into synagogues on Shabbat to inform religious Jews of this amazing rescue effort. It was a Fauda-like operation, with Avi Issacharov saying, “This is beyond belief” and if he tried to write this into a scene for Fauda it would have been unbelievable.

Due to the complexity of such an effort, it is unlikely to be repeated. This is because of the challenges of urban warfare, needing to make simulations with models of the buildings, weeks of preparations and strategy sessions and catching Hamas by surprise with a daytime attack, as well as multiple factors needing to line up. We pray for a hostage deal in which all Israeli hostages are released-and if not possible, for Israel to do everything it can to eradiacate Hamas and set the hostages free.

Please check out Rabbi Taff’s article in The Times of Israel about Arnon serving with his nephew https://www.jpost.com/israel-hamas-war/article-806269

Free Speech

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech.” As Jews we laud the principle of free speech as enshrined in the First Ammendment of the United States Constitution. Our people have lived in numerous countries where speech has been censored as well as practice of our religion. Yet too often there are people who hide behind free speech to spew hatred and threatening remarks. Too often people engage lawyers who know where the lines are drawn between free speech, hate speech and incitement and skirt on that line. Should #Hitlerwasright be free speech? How about having “easy access to Zionist journalists?” Do we need to wait for someone to be harmed in order to view speech as crossing a line?

On one hand we need to support free speech because of times when we were unable to speak out against evil and violence. On the other hand we must routinely condemn hate speech whenever we hear it-provided of course that our safety is not impacted in said situation. There is no such thing as an innocent bystander in Judaism. Not only must we condemn this hateful rhetoric but we also need to work with allies at creating a kinder, gentler world. Love will always triumph over hate and goodness will over evil.

Am Yisrael Chai!

Difficult Time to Be on Campus

I had a wonderful 3 years at the University of Wisconsin. Some of the best friends of my life were made there. Sure there were regular anti-Israel protestors but they were almost comical in nature (Jews United for Justice-4 middle aged men with a small protest sign). After seeing what is going on on liberal college campuses today, including at Columbia, a mere 6 blocks from JTS, I am enraged but not surprised. 

What can we do as these protests spread to numerous colleges throughout the United States? One thing is to withhold our funding to any of these universities that are not keeping our Jewish students safe. However I believe we need to do more. We need to call our local politicians and impress upon them the need for safety of our students-it is even better if we call on our non-Jewish allies to make these calls for us. We must also call on sanctions for those who are funding these demonstrations as well as elimination of federal and state funding for those who are allowing them to occur and putting their students in danger.

I want us to hear from our college students, as we did from Carly Klinger of Aggies for Israel on April 7, as to what they go through on a daily basis. I also want us to encourage sanctions on the countries who are funding Middle East programs who are inciting this hatred, most directly Qatar. It is no accident that these students are not only getting violent but also trying to incite Hamas to attack Jewish students on campuses. 

This is a crazy time that keeps getting crazier yet we will get through it with resilience and resolve. Am Yisrael Chai!v

Why I Could Not Accept Mayor Steinberg’s Compromise Resolution

I have gotten to know Mayor Darrell Steinberg this past year, especially regarding his proposal for the community to come together around a resolution regarding the conflict between Israel and Hamas. I had read the Mayor’s piece in January that “interfaith leaders are not talking to one another” and continued to contact interfaith leaders as I have been doing since October 7, with 8 coming to speak on our Bimah at Shabbat services. At first I believed there was a chance to bring the community together-a pro-Israel group and pro-Palestinian group were supposed to meet to revise the language on one of the early drafts. However, when the pro-Palestinian community refused to meet, the Mayor proceeded with talking to a small group of his allies, including members of CAIR, which nationally was involved in funding money to Hamas (FBI Document Depicting Relationship Between CAIR and Terror Group Hamas Published | Police Magazine). While the Mayor argued that it is supported by the Jewish leaders, it is telling to me that not a single congregational rabbi from any denomination supported the resolution.

 I did see the Mayor work on changes and especially appreciate his getting the immediate return of the hostages added to the resolution and the removal of the terminology of Israel’s disproportionate use of force. However, without the surrender of Hamas, the opportunity for Hamas to regroup and October 7 to occur again remains on the table, as Hamas’ leaders have threatened multiple times. We cannot let Hamas remain in power, especially after they violated the last ceasefire that existed through October 6.

 What is saddest to me is I am already seeing that this resolution will not bring our community together as the Mayor said it would. Last night Jewish leaders were uninvited to events in both the Interfaith and Muslim community.  At City Council meetings I watched antisemitism be thrown out and eaten up like candy and Jewish attendees having to leave under a police escort with fear for their safety. I saw a Neo-Nazi being told by the Mayor to leave, and when he refused nothing was done about it. That individual was able to speak again last night uninterrupted. In contrast, I watched 2 people wearing Israeli flags be shut down angrily by the Mayor. I cannot condone this hypocrisy.

 In my last conversation with Mayor he asked me to stand in his shoes. I have tried to do so. I have observed the vitriol and verbal abuse that he has taken week after week at City Council, the weekly protests at and vandalism of his home, as well as the terrorizing of City Council member Lisa Kaplan and the targeting of her car at the City Hall garage. At the same time, I read in today’s Sacramento Bee that the 12 people arrested for refusing to leave the city council meeting have vowed to disrupt it again.” (Protesters arrested at Sacramento council meeting speak out: ‘We are going to do it again’ (yahoo.com) The resolution which in Mayor Steinberg’s words was designed to bring the community together is actually tearing us further apart.  We are witnessing the truth of Council Member Kaplan words, “It’s going to fracture people.” I have seen the worst in people for two months. Now on my way back to Sacramento from the East Coast, I will continue to do my part to meet with other interfaith leaders, especially those who disagree with me, to build bridges and try to put this ugly hatred I have heard week after week to bed.

Accepting Our Unique Personalities

          Often in life the person we are hardest on is ourselves. We think, “If only I could have done better” or “I messed this up again.” Moses is no different from us. He says, “I cannot lead this people, for they are too heavy for me (כי כבד ממני)”[1]-in other words it’s too great a task for me; I can’t lift them up when they get down on themselves, when they selectively remember the delicacies of Egypt without the painstaking labor that they had to go through day in day out under the whip.

          Fortunately for Moses, he has a role model in his father-in-law. What does Yitro say to Moses when he sees him sitting before Israel from day to night? כִּֽי־כָבֵ֤ד מִמְּךָ֙ הַדָּבָ֔ר לֹא־תוּכַ֥ל עֲשֹׂ֖הוּ לְבַדֶּֽךָ-this matter is too heavy for you-you cannot do it alone.[2] The significance is that Yitro recognizes Moses’ limitations. He knows the amount of work Moses put into his job, yet he also knows that Moses not only cannot handle everything alone, but also if he tries, he is likely to get overwhelmed and explode, as we see in Numbers. Moses succeeded when Yitro was by his side-when Yitro left him, in the beginning of Numbers, he became more and more limited by his anger.

          How often in life we fail to recognize our limitations, feeling that on a task we are treading water with no end in sight? How often do we want a lifeline thrown in our direction? We often feel a great weightiness on our shoulders, that all the pressure is on us. It is time to remove those weights from our shoulders, to rid ourselves of the shackles of feeling enslaved and to channel our inner Yitro, recognizing and honoring our limitations. Yes, honoring our limitations. We need to recognize, “This is an area at which I am weak. Is there someone else who can do this task better? Who else can I rely upon?” We cannot let our limitations stop us from finding our place at Mosaic Law Congregation.

         We just finished celebrating a new group of Jews by Choice receiving their first aliyot to the Torah. I know how much anxiety there was behind this-not the Hebrew as much as standing up in front of so many people. Yet rather than giving up and throwing in the towel they persevered. It reminds me of Mickey Zeff every time I see him get an Aliyah or recite Kiddush. He always has a big smile on his face and reads with the same joy that I believe he had the first time he was called up. We each can follow this example.

          Today we observe Michael Boussina Inclusion Shabbat in celebration of Jewish Disabilities Awareness, Acceptance and Inclusion Month. Often those with disabilities or barriers, whether physical or mental, social, or emotional, are defined by what they cannot do. Instead, it is time to define them and celebrate them for all that they can do.

          I began by recognizing Moses’ limitations because I want us to see that like Moses, each of us can remove some of the weight from our shoulders-to focus on areas of passion or strength and be at peace with areas of limitation. It is time to leave behind the inner critic, or the “judge from within” and accept ourselves for who we are-just as we should accept our parents, children, siblings, and members of our congregational family for who they are. What I pray we will do on this Shabbat of inclusion is accept each part of ourselves, even those we wish were different. That will lead us on the path to accepting others, each of whom is made in the image of God.


[1] Numbers 11:14

[2] Exodus 18:18

Recognizing that We Are Grieving After October 7

Since October 7, members of my synagogue, Mosaic Law Congregation, have been coming to me grieving and in mourning. Many have lost family members and close friends. The cousin of one of my congregants and good friend of another are kidnapped in Gaza. My family friends are off in Lebanon and Gaza, and I have no idea if I will see them again. Many have told me they no longer feel comfortable wearing their Jewish stars or kippot (skullcaps). We have had the need for increased security measures. It is a terrifying time for my community.


My immediate response was to call other faith leaders with whom I have built relations through interfaith work and ask them to speak at the Mosaic Law Congregation on a Saturday morning. Seven of them did so. One thing which perplexed me was not receiving replies from those in the Muslim community with whom I had worked so hard to build relationships. We broke bread together, I attended their events and they came to my installation. It took me some time to realize that I was not hearing back from them because this is such a polarizing issue-one for which no amount of dialogue will help us come anywhere close to a mutual understanding.


I thank Mayor Steinberg for not giving the Valenzuela-Vang resolution a hearing and for his strong preference, “not to have any formal resolution come before the City Council.” I agree with his statement, “In most cases, I do not believe our City Council should spend council time on foreign policy.” There is so much work to be done locally, and anything we say about a conflict 7500 miles away will only increase the division between us. We don’t need shouting matches, broken windows or property burnt to the ground.
At the same time, we need to come together in a safe space to share our pain, recognize our suffering and see the shared humanity in each other as citizens of Sacramento. As the language of the Santa Cruz resolution mentions, we must “acknowledge the suffering of the Peoples of the Middle East, affirm our shared humanity and wish for peace, call for collaborative efforts supporting peaceful dialogue among all parties involved; and urge our community to develop and participate in activities that foster tolerance, empathy, education, and understanding of people of all backgrounds and religious faiths.”


I view Mayor Steinberg’s statement “Our interfaith communities are not talking to one another. They are too angry, distrustful, and hurt to reach across the divide” as a challenge to come together-NOT to pass a resolution but to find common ground in other areas. I want to give an open invitation based off his message and the Santa Cruz resolution to all faith leaders find common ground and work together to benefit the greater Sacramento community. Currently we are working on a Latino-Jewish Seder with Bishop Soto and the Catholic Diocese, and we are always looking for more opportunities to join forces. Our approach should never be to shrink into my bubble and silo off. We must view this as an opportunity to build bridges.


As a precursor to doing so, however, we must recognize the hurt, pain, loss and suffering that we are feeling. Any attempt to come together that does not acknowledge that is tone deaf. It is time to understand that each of us is grieving and that many are going through trauma. Only through doing that can we respond to the other in a way which will be productive rather than destructive.

Shabbos Hevron

          I was visiting family friends in Efrat during my year of study in Israel and they asked me, “Do you want to come back next week for Shabbos Hevron?” “What is that?” I asked. “It’s when thousands of Jews come to Hevron to pray at Maarat HaMachpelah, the Cave of the Patriarchs.” I declined but ever since then have wondered what it would have been like in Hevron that weekend.

          The most recent population statistics I could find, from 2021, are 782,227 Palestinian Arabs living in Hevron.[1] In contrast there are under 1,000 Jews, outside the outskirts of the Old City of Hevron. The larger Jewish population is in Kiryat Arba, an adjacent city, which in 2021 had a population of 7,499 Jews.[2] In the two times I visited Hevron I saw a bench with a picture of Elijah leading the Messiah. My tour guide said, “I like the Hevron settlers because at least they are honest-they are here to bring about Mashiach.”

          There are complicated agreements around the governance of Hevron, the most prominent being the Wye River Memorandum under Prime Minister Netanyahu in the 1990s.[3] We can discuss these another time. My question for us this morning, as we had thousands more going to Hevron to pray at Maarat HaMachpelah, is just because we can do this is it something we should do? I love biblical sites and I found it powerful to pray at the Cave of the Patriarchs. However, that’s different than going with thousands of my closest friends to assert we have a right to storm the city on the Shabbat at which Avraham Avinu purchased Maarat HaMachpelah as a burial place for his beloved Sarah. I am not posing an answer, only raising the question, as we begin our Torah reading this morning.


[1] Hebron – Wikipedia

[2] Kiryat Arba – Wikipedia

[3] Wye River Memorandum – Wikipedia

Middat S’dom

          Pirkei Avot, Ethics of the Fathers, teaches us about the Midah, or type of behavior, given to the people of Sodom. The Mishnah reads: “People fall into four categories, based on their dispositions: the one who says ‘What’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours”-this is the disposition of a middling individual; but some say it is the disposition of (the people of) Sodom.[1] In his commentary on this Mishanh, Rabbi Gordon Tucker writes, “The Bible depicts Sodom as a place of violence and depravity, but the rabbinic traditions are much subtler and far more interesting. They posit that the people of Sodom did not ignore the law entirely, but rather followed it so strictly that their behavior resulted in the over-privileging of those who were better off while those who were impoverished were completely shut out legally…Middat Sodom, the disposition of Sodom, thus came to be synonymous for the rabbis with grudging behavior in a case of zeh neheneh v’zeh lo haser[2]-that is, when one can bestow a benefit on someone else without suffering any loss yet still declines to do it.” The example Rabbi Tucker provides is “My refusing to let you have your guests park in my driveway on a weekend when I am out of town; legally I can certainly refuse to do so, but it hardly seems justifiable from a moral standpoint.”[3]

          One of the aspects that makes Israel unique is the principle Kol Yisrael Arevin Zeh LaZeh-all of Israel is responsible for one another.[4] For us it is not enough to say ‘You take care of yourself and I’ll take care of me.’ Rather, if we can help another within reason, not in expense of our self-care, our families and our work, we not only should do so but we must. That is what makes the nation of Israel so unique at a time like this: we see the best in Israelis in their coming together and supporting one another. Israel is demonstrating that it is not Midat Sodom but that each and every Israeli is responsible for one another. May we do the same here.


[1] Pirkei Avot Chapter 5 Mishanh 12.

[2] Babylonian Talmud Bava Kama 20a

[3] Rabbi Gordon Tucker, Pirkei Avot Lev Shalem, Page 252

[4] Babylonian Talmud Shavuot 39b